Don’t allow yourself to self-sabotage future relationships. You deserve the very best that life and love has to offer. You just have to be willing to see the blessings in the lesson.
Sometimes we have to kiss a few frogs in order to fully appreciate when we find our “One”. The frog isn’t a punishment, it’s a teachable moment. Sometimes they teach us patience and sometimes they teach us exactly what we don’t want in a mate.
Either way use the experience as a catalyst for growth. Experience is the best teacher, but sometimes it takes a whole lot of trial and error to come up with the winning combination.
Forehead kisses to her third eye
Allowing her more opportunities to say thank you
Than you’re welcome
Understanding her desire to have help
Not because she can’t do it alone
But because you recognize the fact she shouldn’t have to
Allowing her to be vulnerable
Without feeling weak or preyed upon
Respecting her intelligence
And praising her resilience
Recognizing the hard exterior is part of her adapting to life without a mate
Understanding your strength and patience is a catalyst to her shedding that outer layer
Knowing how to stimulate her mind and evoke orgasms without ever touching her body
Speaking to her soul so that she knows
You’re the missing piece
To synchronize the rhythm of her heart beat.
Sometimes in our quest to find fulfillment, we become overwhelmed and our mind shuts down.
We can envision so many scenarios for our life but unless we stick to one path and one goal at a time, the road becomes cluttered with an overabundance of paths that lead to nowhere. It’s impossible to learn to walk without learning the art of taking one step at a time, such is true in regard to progression in life.
There very well may be a broad picture, but sometimes we have to allow ourselves to work up to that, one stroke and one step at a time. Not allowing ourselves to measure our progress through the comparison of others seemingly on similar paths. Each journey is different and each lesson is Divinely tailored for the person receiving it.
We have to learn to be patient and for some waiting is so very difficult. But when we attempt to push when we are supposed to be still, the Supreme Power has a way of shutting us down and forcing us to be still and listen to instruction. It’s impossible to listen when one is not focused and one cannot be focused when energies are concentrated on a multitude of things all at once. It’s when we are unfocused that we often find we are busy, yet still accomplishing nothing, because we have not devoted ourselves 100% to one thing at a time.
There is a difference between multi-tasking and multi-masking, multi-tasking is completing or performing multiple tasks at the same time to a desired end. Multi-masking is the appearance of making moves when no progression or completion of tasks is actually ever made.
We have to allow ourselves breathing room, learning how to not only be patient with others, but more importantly with ourselves.
So stop trying to force your neighbor’s shoes onto your feet and stop trying to follow the map to someone else’s life, it won’t lead you to your treasure.
Stop worrying about how your life looks to others and get busy one step towards progress at a time
Instead, BE STILL. LISTEN. PLAN. Then FOLLOW your plan to get to your desired end result.~micaiah